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Tiger Woods Affair

Posted on April 21st, 2010 by Brian Gosur

This may be familiar to you.

There are three sides to every story. Your side. My side and the truth. I heard this from a man that had a great influence in my life. Pastor Robert Armstrong. Pastor of Warrendale Community Church and an immense student of the bible.

You can’t really get to far away from God and the bible when you are talking about the truth. This is not going to be about God or the bible, but about finding the truth and than being able to live the truth in our everyday lives. Something that many, but not all, are looking to achieve in their lives.

This is about Tiger Woods. I know that so much has been written about the whole story of the accident and the infidelity, but I wanted to put my two cents in.

Everywhere I go and everything that I see, I am hard pressed to find an ounce of truth anywhere. Nobody tells the truth anymore. Do your own search. See if you can find the truth anywhere and especially….. in your own heart.

I look at my self, Brian Gosur, and I am doing much better now in my life with truth then I have ever done before, but it is still a struggle. I don’t do it all the time. Why is it so hard to tell the truth?

The definition from the dictionary for the word “hypocrite”, is a person who pretends to have virtues and principles, that he doesn’t actually posses. It comes from a Greek word that means, ” a stage actor, one speaking from under a mask.” Now I know your thinking of a couple of people who you would like to apply this to, but first I want you to take a long hard look at the person in the mirror.

Now I don’t mean to put anymore guilt on Tiger Woods then already is there, but I would like to look at his incident to explain what I just described. Tiger Woods children, wife, and Tiger Wood, needs our prayers and support. Anyone of us, given those circumstances, could have been in the same situation.

Tiger Woods grew up in a good home. I don’t know all the details, but for the most part, he had good parents who instilled in him good morals and character to make him what he is today. Not just the best golfer and sports figure of our time, but the fiber and quality of a good man. A good catch for any women, and believe me, there were lots of them knocking on his door.

A handsome guy. A guy of solid morals and quality character. All of Tiger Woods endorsements, all of Tiger Woods wins, and all of Tiger Woods net worth, put him on a shelf above all of us. The crown jewel of what every parent wants for their daughter. Just think of what it would be like! But with all this comes the recipe for the perfect storm that not to many people have been able to withstand.

This man’s upbringing, training and every moral fiber of his being would be tested, as it is with all of us. We’ve all gone through this. Although the wealth, fame, and spotlight may have not been there, but we all went through what Tiger Woods went through. Before you pass judgment on him, how did you do? Maybe you got by and swept it under the rug before anyone noticed.

I know that I failed my test. I won’t go into all the details, but I failed and I hurt a lot of people and many lives were changed forever, because of what I did. In my case, only the people involved will know what I’m talking about, but in Tiger Woods case, the whole world is watching. There is no hiding place for him.

When I first heard about this I was completely taken back like everyone else was. Tiger Woods? This could not be true. He would have been the last person I would ever figure for something like this.

Tiger did his best to cover up and twist the truth and hide from any questions. He did his best to protect his image of one who pretends to have virtues, moral or religious beliefs, and principles that he didn’t possess. Or does he?

I really think that Tiger Woods has all those qualities deep down. You could always see it and hear it whenever he talked. These are qualities that you can’t fake. He did make a huge mistake, as we all do while we are growing up. I do think he is seeing the real person inside that mirror now. I do pray that it is still going to be OK for Tiger Woods wife and him. She has got to grow also, and together they can learn to build through all this and walk with the truth by their side.

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